Misheru

This Christmas, I am doing something I haven’t done before, even though I’ve tried: I’m making a lot of my gifts (hence the sewing machine research).  I am NOT a crafty person; in fact, I HATE crafts, as anyone who worked with me in the Children’s Department at the library knows well.  However, the engineer in me does like designing things, and I do sketch, write calligraphy (Asian and Roman) and whip up spa items from time to time.  I also sew a bit, having started with the mega-project of sewing my own wedding dress (I’ll scan and post a pic later today).  Anyway, I’m busy making gifts but I saw this post from GetRichSlowly, one of my favorite blogs, and I thought it was a great idea to pass on.

The Anti-Stuff Holiday Gift Guide

Meaningful, personal gifts
Anti-Stuff gifts aren’t necessarily gift cards, which often feel a bit impersonal. Think about what would be meaningful to the recipient. If your sister is a busy mom, give her a couple of hours of babysitting and an appointment with a masseuse. Consider the following to generate anti-Stuff gift ideas unique to each loved one:

• Hobbies
• Lifestyle (parent, student, on-the-go, homebody…)
• Anything he or she has “always wanted to do”

Word of warning: make sure the gift is something the recipient would enjoy or something in which he or she has expressed interest, not something you like or think he or she should like! That holds true with any sort of gift-giving.

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Read the rest at GetRichSlowly

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#3  The conservative movement represents “family values.”

A few years back, my in-laws got me a subscription to World. World is an uber-conservative magazine that claims to focus on global issues, but is really just a rag for propaganda. Yes, I said it — propaganda. This is not because I “disagree” with World, although on many issues, I do. Propaganda is its own form of journalism, and there are several conduits for such journalism on both sides of the political line (on the liberal side, see Mother Jones). Anyway, I was reading along in World when I reached an article about campaign finance reform, where the magazine claimed that finance reform for political contributions was “unGodly” and that readers should call their representative before this terrible blight on Christian values was allowed to pass.

Um, excuse me?

Finance reform is unGodly?

This was the point where I tossed the magazine aside, and sent all the rest of the issues (yes, they came for 18 long months) into the recycling where they belonged. It is exactly this kind of rhetoric that makes me foam at the mouth. Anti-corruption legislation (oooo, that’s the other term for “finance reform”), if God were to decide on it, would probably not be unGodly. That’s just a guess. Not that I know what God is thinking. And for that matter, neither does World magazine. So claiming “rightness” and “Godliness” for issues like this…well, like I said, it just makes me foam at the mouth.

In reality, I started looking more closely at my conservative stance when I was 19 and on an internship that led me to Iowa.  My mentor, Sande, and his wife, Margo, are two of the kindest, most ‘Christian’ people I’ve ever met, yet they thought differently about life and politics (Margo was head of the Iowa Democratic party for some years) and I spent a lot of time listening to what they said and why they believed it.  I realized that liberal values were actually more in line with what I believed than conservative values, but that I had consistently fallen for the face value of the conservative ‘line’.  And that, folks, is how I became a bleeding heart liberal – because not everyone gets the same start, life isn’t fair, and sometimes those who have much need to give to those who have less.

More than this, though, I came to understand how really crucial it is for churches and religion to stay out of politics.  We talk a lot about theocracy in the Middle East, and how detrimental it can be; what people don’t consider is how dangerous theocracy can be in our own country. (More on this later…also, ignore the “read more” links at the bottom here, I’m changing my theme and I’ve got some kinks to work out) (oops, now it works!)